Lost & Found

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I woke up this morning like any other day. Little did I know that today would be the end of my search. I've been searching for my sister for years.  All I had was a name and its a fairly common name so, its been a rough search. This morning, I checked my facebook and had a request from a Crystal. My heart literally skipped a beat and I haven't been able to focus all day. I can't believe that my sister found me.  This has opened up an entire new world for me. I have other sisters, but this is different. She comes from my father.  We share some of the struggles and joys because of that.  We've spent the entire day texting and learning about each other. My mind keeps wandering and wondering if we will be able to maintain contact in the future.  What if we hate each other? There's just so much I want to know.  I have a sister and I know nothing about her! This is somehow very boggling for me.  I guess I never thought this would actually happen, in fact I never played this out in my head like I did when I looked for my dad. But here I am in complete awe and shock. I can only imagine her thoughts, I found out she only recently found out about me.  I've know about her since I was young. This whole thing has my mind spinning in circles. I'm having trouble even putting my thoughts into words and that's very rare.

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